Tap Away the Belief that Fixing People is Love

It is often said that men show love by “fixing things” for people, up to and including fixing their loved ones. If a man can’t fix somebody, they might feel angry and powerless, and try harder, or feel inadequate. What if love has nothing to do with fixing people or things, and in fact, what if love is about accepting people just as they are, even if they’re broken?
I’m Too Busy for Love
I have noticed that a lot of people who are busy, are actually that way to avoid connecting with those they love. This behavior is a defense mechanism to keep them safe from the perceived dangers of connecting and being intimate. To connect is to be vulnerable, and so they find all manner of busy [...]
Afraid of Being Alone?

Are you afraid of being alone? Do you stay in bad relationships way past their expiration date? This can be caused for numerous reasons, however, sometimes it’s good to tap on the top level issue to let the deeper ones come up to the surface. A lot of times, we watched our parents stay [...]
Conscious Creation and Being in the Flow

I have been struggling with the concept of being a conscious creator while still surrendering to the flow of life. How do I find the balance between having what I desire and letting go of controlling the process? I can honestly say that this hasn’t been an easy task to find balance in, but I [...]
How to Discover Root Memories (Video)

Some EFT practitioners believe that you merely need to be present with your current feelings to integrate your unknown childhood traumas, while others feel it is important to go back to the beginning and tap through the specific memory. I fall in the latter category, although I will also tap into current feelings and look [...]
Tapping Into Oneness (2 Videos)

This blog post is the result of a question from one of my readers, Shauna from Utah, regarding a statement I made to her about my “oneness issues”. Thank YOU Shauna for your thought provoking question!
According to Hale Dwoskin of “The Sedona Method“, there are three key areas of our lives where [...]
Beggars Can’t Be Choosers (Video)

When I was a child, I was often told, “beggars can’t be choosers” if I didn’t like a present or the food that I was served. I learned that I had to accept everything given to me without saying anything that might offend the giver. If I disliked the food or gift and wanted something [...]











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