Jealousy is a Form of Lack!
Jealousy is a form of lack, it is based on the belief that there is not enough love for everyone; that in order for you to be loved, somebody else needs to be unloved. But, if there really is an abundance of love, more than enough for everyone, then the need for jealousy, and the anger that it is based upon, disappears.
The easiest way to disippate your anger is to change the limiting belief that it is stemming from. Anger is a feeling that states “I think what is going on here is unfair”. But, if we really are the architect of our reality, if we really do own our destiny, then all of life really is fair. So if we are angry, that means that we have a limiting belief that causes us to think that we really do not own our life. So then the purpose of anger is to point out a limiting belief to us, and thus, the cure for jealousy is to cure our own limiting beliefs about love.
Try this setup statement with EFT:
“Even though I have this belief that there is not enough love to go around, that if my significant other (friend, family member, etc.) loves somebody else, then I will be unloved, I choose to honor my jealousy, to honor my anger and listen to it. And I choose to change my limiting beliefs about love, that maybe there really is more than enough for everyone, and I choose to deeply and profoundly, love, accept, and forgive myself.”
Now this is a good start to tap on, but I recommend taking it a step further. Look to your past, prior to the age of six, and find a time when you felt the same jealous feelings, the feeling that there was not enough love to go around. Maybe it was when a sibling was born, maybe a close friend made a new friend and you felt left out. Heal this memory, and you can heal your limiting belief.
And if you are struggling with a jealous partner, they are just reflecting an aspect of you that is still wounded. Even if you are not the jealous one, you still probably have a form of jealousy and anger inside of you causing this reflection. Look deep inside for the memory and accompanying belief and you can empower your partner to heal as well.
Yes, there is more than enough love to go around, for you, and all those who are close to you!
With Much Love for All,
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