Tap Away the Belief that Fixing People is Love

It is often said that men show love by “fixing things” for people, up to and including fixing their loved ones. If a man can’t fix somebody, they might feel angry and powerless, and try harder, or feel inadequate. What if love has nothing to do with fixing people or things, and in fact, what if love is about accepting people just as they are, even if they’re broken?
Tap Away Programmed Sexual Guilt
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I have noticed a pattern with clients, something universal in their feelings about their sexuality, they struggle with societal based guilt. This guilt was passed down to them as children, and they now carry it along with them as adults. It gets in the way of their ability to enjoy the partner they are with, [...]
The Voice of Empowerment Radio Show – Aug 8, 2011

I was on the air last night on the “Voice of Empowerment” radio show with Mystic Mandy and Belle Salisbury speaking about EFT, the Feeling’s Wheel, childhood traumas, and limiting beliefs. Please listen to the hour long replay and let me know what you think by leaving a comment at the bottom!
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Tapping Into Self-Trust

Trust is possible only if first you trust in yourself. The most fundamental thing has to happen within you first If you trust in yourself, you can trust in me, you can trust in people, you can trust in existence. But if you don’t trust in yourself, then no other trust is ever possible. ~OSHO, [...]
Love as a Weapon

Being a relationship “runner” is a common method of dealing with the fear of intimacy, so much so that a movie called “Runaway Bride” was created about the topic. Running away from relationships may be seen as being a commitment-a-phobe, but I believe that running away is a learned behavior taught to us as children, [...]
Create Unconditional Love in Your Relationships

Unconditional love is a great idea in theory, yet seemingly unattainable to achieve in the average relationship; and in the relationships that “should be” easiest, those with parents and children, it is unrealistic too. We place so many expectations on those we love that it’s a wonder we even call it love…let’s face it, the [...]
Healing Emotional Incest

John Bradshaw defines emotional incest as a child being their parent’s “surrogate spouse”. When mom or dad does not get the emotional attention that they feel they deserve or crave from their partner, or they feel angry at them, they then lean on their child for attention, love, and emotional support. As you can imagine, [...]











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